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Wedding Planning: New York-Style

Michael Cummings,
New York Civil Liberties Union
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July 7, 2011

Weddings raise a lot of questions: Who should we invite? Do we want an outdoor or indoor ceremony? Do we hire a DJ or a band for the reception?

With New York State's giving lesbian and gay couples the freedom to marry set to take effect on July 24, thousands of same-sex couples are tackling these same logistical questions. But they also face complex and serious questions regarding their rights questions most wedding planners can't answer.

The is here to help. Check out our new guide to the Marriage Equality Act.

covers a wide range of topics, including: the nuts and bolts of applying for a marriage license, the rights and responsibilities conferred by marriage, and the implications of the law's religious exemptions. It addresses specific questions such as:

  • How do we get married? What do we need to do?
  • If we don't live in New York, can we still get married in New York?
  • What kinds of benefits will we get from marriage?
  • What effect does the federal Defense of Marriage Act have on our marriage?
  • Can a church or member of the clergy refuse to marry me and my partner?
  • Can I be discriminated against for marrying someone of the same sex?
  • Can a private business, like a florist or photography studio, refuse to provide a service for my wedding because I am marrying a person of the same sex?

The guide will help couples understand their rights at a time when, sadly, the vast majority of states and the federal government still fail to recognize same-sex marriages. It will provide couples some peace of mind and allow them to focus their attention on things that matter like finding a reasonably priced photographer.

is currently available on the NYCLU's website. A printed version will be available soon.

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